Donal has another good post found here he discusses a great deal, including the coming persecution, churches that marginalize men and the bleak dating market.
In regards to finding a good parish I would recommend any FSSP parish. They are excellent. We were able to visit one right before epiphany. The priest was encouraging the men of the parish to take home blessed chalk to bless their home’s doorway (an epiphany tradition). He stressed that it was their right as head of the family to do so and not to miss the opportunity. And in his homily he stressed the importance of the husband’s authority over his wife. It was rather a shock .