My friends are sharing this article the title makes me cringe, “10 Ways to A Healthier Husband.” The article itself has some sound advice but the tone is controlling. Ladies don’t fool yourself into thinking that you can make your husband healthier, fitter, better – any improvements he does are just that his. You can build him up or tear him down, for sure, but you are not his trainer, you are his wife, focus on how you can be a healthier wife and express your desires if you want him involved. That is, if you want to exercise together, say so! Say, “I want to exercise with you.” or “I want to go for a walk with you” or “I want to eat better” but don’t think you can nag your husband or micromanage him into a fitter man – you will both be miserable if that is your goal.